Eight kinds of gifts are beautiful and priceless gift to those you care about.
ATTENDANCE
The presence of a loved one feels is a priceless gift. It can also be present in front of us by letter, telephone, or fax images. But by being at his side, you and he can share feelings, care and affection in a more complete and intensive. Make your presence as a bearer of happiness.
HEAR
Few people are capable of giving this gift. Because, most people prefer to listen to, rather than listening. By devoting attention to every word, indirectly we also have developed the patience and humility. To be able to hear properly, make sure you are in a state of relaxed and really can capture what is delivered intact. Face-to-face. No need to interrupt, criticize, much less judgmental. Let him finish, this lets you give the appropriate response after that. Not necessarily in the form of discussion or assessment. Just to say thank kasihpun will sound sweet to him.
STILL
As the words, in the silence there is also a strength. Silence can be used to punish, expel, or confuse people. But more than anything, Silence can also show our love to someone because it gave her "space". Especially if the day-to-day we have been accustomed likes to advise, organize, criticize and even scolded.
FREEDOM
Loving someone does not mean give us full rights to own or manage the person's life. Can we claim to love someone if we are always trapped? Giving freedom is one embodiment of love. The meaning of freedom is not "You're free to do all you want". Much deeper than that, give freedom is to give full trust to be responsible for everything that he decided or done.
BEAUTY
Who would not be happy, if people who loved suddenly look more handsome or beautiful? Shown beautiful and shapely is also a wonderful gift. Besides the beauty of personal appearance, you can give away the beauty of the atmosphere at home. Vases and beautiful fresh flowers in the family room or dining room table landscaped, for example.
POSITIVE RESPONSE
Without realizing, we often give a negative assessment of the thoughts, attitudes or actions of people we love. It was as if nothing is true of him and only absolute truth in us. This time, try to gift a positive response. State clearly and sincerely. Try to remember, how many times in the last week you would like to thank you for everything he does for you. Remember also, have you ever praised him. Those two things, thanks and praise (and apology) is a beautiful gift that is often forgotten.
Willingness relents
Not all problems deserve the subject of argument. Moreover, until it becomes a great fight. When you think about this, you're ready to give a gift "willingness to budge." Willingness to yield also can release the hurt and invites us to realize that no man is perfect in this world.
Smile
Believe it or not, the power of the smile is very remarkable. A smile, especially given sincerely, could be defrost frozen relations, the encourager in despair, lightening the atmosphere of somber, even a troubled soul sedative. A smile is also a signal to open ourselves to the world around us. When was the last time you rewarded the sweet smile on a loved one?