Mate

The people 'optimis'selalu say, our soul mate is what we try, not merely a gift from God. If we believe and try, we can get what we want mate. A man has been dating the girl of his dreams for years, and he was sure that she is his soul mate. During courtship, the storm and now they have spent together. There was nothing else in the world who can cancel their wedding plans together. On the appointed day, held their wedding ceremony with a very festive. The man proudly showing to friends and relatives, she can marry the girl of his dreams. A few years later, a friend found him sitting alone in the park. After the talk, the friend discovered that he had been divorced from his wife for some reason that is not mentioned. The friend tried to comfort by telling her life experiences. Many years ago he loves a girl and trying hard to marry her, but with a variety of reasons and obstacles, he had to say goodbye to the dream and parted with the girl. Some time later, he was met by accident with someone who is now the mother of his children.

Mate is the secret of God. We never know whether husband, wife, or our lovers today is really our soulmate or soul mate. God has created man in pairs, as already mentioned in the scriptures. The problem is whether we can find a soul mate. We may never realize that our soul mate is someone who actually been there before us, we just are too 'busy' to find even to different parts of the world though. There is no harm at all if we try to get the people we want. It's just that sometimes we are too optimistic and had completely forgotten that there is the X factor, namely the power ilahiyyah (divinity) is actually a very decisive in our search process.

Pray to the Creator, if we had found someone who we expect, or if already married and had children, or even not find parts of the heart, hopefully people will be with us or who are with us today is our soul mate, now and forever.