Power of Praise

This is a true story about a famous singer in Europe, a woman speak good. He is married to a musician and a songwriter. So smart the husband is about the song, tone, bars, and other things in music, so she always finds what should be corrected when his wife sang. 

If his wife sing, there's always comments and criticism as the front is not high enough. Next time he says, this section is less quietly. Another time he criticized, "the last part should be" sharp "rise a little ... There's always a caustic comment that he is accusing me that his wife singing and humming. Finally she was lazy singing. He decided" Gee, do not sing it, if it all wrong . In fact, sometimes a fight ... " 

Short story, because of an accident, the husband died and shortly after that the woman was married again to a plumber. This plumber does not know anything about music. All he knew his wife a nice voice and he always praised his wife when singing. 

Once when his wife asked, "Sir, how my song?" 

He replied enthusiastically, "Ma, I have always wanted to go home because she wants to hear you sing." 

Next time, he said, "Ma, if I'm not married to you, maybe I have gone deaf by the sound of the explosion, the sound of chainsaws, the sound cericit drat plumbing, plumbing friction and other pipe sound that I hear all day if I work. Before I marry you, I often dream and ringing voice that unpleasant saw it when sleeping. Now after marriage and often hear you sing, your song is a ringing " 

His wife was delighted, flattered. It made him fond of singing, chanting and singing. Shower him sing, cook him without realizing he's singing and practicing, practicing and practicing. Her husband pushed until he began to record and release the first volume and the cassette was welcomed by the community. 

This woman eventually became the famous singer, and he's not famous at the time of her husband's music expert, but when her husband is a plumber, who gave him little by little praise when she sang. 

A little praise to give receipts. Provide a sense received little praise, encouragement, enthusiasm for doing things better and better. A little praise can make a person could reach the highest achievement. Nagging, yelling, criticism, anger or criticism shall not be much change.